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Recommended Films These are some of the movies that will help to stretch the mind and imagination!  We make reference to many of these in our workshops and training because they help to understand abstract concepts and ideas!  Please feel free to add your suggestions!   Dark City Thirteenth Floor Matrix Pleasantville Older Star Treks Avatar What dreams May Come...

Connectedness

...1/09/2013 'The first of Spring - I delight in the connectedness that surrounds us within the network we have gathered around the globe and across five continents. It continues to astound me when I hear that behind the scenes of our very obvious Facebook secret page the members are sending each other gifts, giving advise and practicing their own personal gifts. it is magical to say the least! When Jesus (apparently) said that those who had the eyes see look, would see that the kingdom of heaven was all around us, I saw and realized that the interconnected ness was the first place to see what he meant. That the synchronicity and loving attitudes, thoughtfulness and call to support were but followers of that. A cluster of people hold the light of goodness far easier than one alone and  it is far harder to taint or rattle. Connectedness is an energy which holds each member in its embrace gently. A web of supernatural design and offers countless opportunities to each and every one as the heartbeat of grace, in it's never ending form, extends tirelessly outwards, paused...knowing a recognition is...

A godly life poem

A GODLY LIFE...grin   A lonely god sat at a table, playing with a fork and knife Why cannot I be happy and build me a handsome wife? I cast her out of sticks and stones and grass if there is spare I’ll give her hair just like mine and clothes for her to wear   I’ll make her work and toil all day to bring to me my dinner I’ll be the talk around the forest, I know I’ll build a winner They’ll be ordering from me, ye know, a wife both fine an fair A perfect fit for everyone, I will make them a pigeon pair   I’ll use my river for her tears and mud for her feet of clay She’ll simply lay down on my bed towards the end of day She’ll ease my aches and grind my wheat for to make my bread Scrub my back, comb my hair and massage my weary head   I’ll first begin to use my rib or two to get started on my idea I’ll cast her beauty with golden locks and ample wifely rear I’ll begin at dawn and use my tools to fashion my perfect wife And then I will have a companion for the rest of my godly life. - Jaylee B   ...

SYNERGY

...24/08/2013 'You all know the saying that a flock of Canadian geese fly 70% further in formation than a single Goose flies alone. So, any day that you feel like a Goose, rally some friends, pray together, have tea and scones, run a marathon with other parents, count your blessings with a neighbor,  tell your children a story, hug a dozen strangers, smell a dozen roses or simply phone mum! In the third dimensional realm, we are deeply moved to begin to explore the reliance and support of others rather than the need to be an isolated individual. This prepares us for the move into fourth dimension where we learn to love unconditionally and understand fully that every other person is a reflection of ourselves. If we are all ONE, and we live our beliefs in this and do our best with this, the intelligence of the universe serves us in its mysterious ways. Try to explore Synergy and its benefits without negative results. 'Where two or more join together - IT IS DONE!' - Jaylee...

Tested like never before

...19/08/2013 'And I thought that if I took them past the Sids stage when they were first born, I was home free. I thought that if I took them past potty training I was home free. I thought that if I took them past their first day of school, I would be home free.....Well, at seventeen and eighteen years of age I am still looking to the horizon for that place called 'home free'! Each stage of a child's development brings with it new terrors, insights, fears, joys, firsts and accomplishments. And we think their first day at school is frightening or their first sleep over or their first accident - try their first drink or drag on a cigarette, or illegally driving a car or skipping school, or first love, now that's a whole new ball game and it ups the anti towards that blissful place called 'home free'! - Jaylee...

Spaceman agenda

...8/8/2013 'I remember a song from Chris De Burgh years ago, called a Spaceman Came Travelling" and I recall the feelings it brought within my body. The initial elation and then when the neo-cortex kicked in, the trepidation. Years on and with much more knowledge and experience, understanding and courage, I interact with and acknowledge the influence and input of races that are not from our planet. It is a tough subject - the old school hold firmly to the denial cultivated by the media and the those that 'know' secretly hide the bountiful communications coming through. I remember years ago receiving a radio segment, which had been intercepted, from a high ranking federation officer, speaking about their colony's downfall, how they had amalgamated with other colonies and formed the federation, which has been primary to Earth's non-interference period in history. From the activity in the sky, that clause has been lifted! So, where does that leave us? I came to the conclusion that it left me as a knowledgeable and consciously evolving human from earth, who has no problems with interactions with other species should all agendas be mutually beneficial and for our highest good. As for the other species on our planet - and there are lots of them - remember that everyone seeks to grow and evolve and sometimes we just need to be reminded of our innate potential, no matter who we may be. Jaylee...

The Inner Parents

...30/07/2013 'As I glance back at my life and see the wonderful wake I have left behind, I paused for a moment and remembered the age I am about to become. A new lease on life they say...the launching of a soul's purpose they write and I remember deeply my roots. I entered this life with two parents who were examples of many follies, judgments, joys, entrapments and liberations. All, which I have designed and agreed to, in a spectacular way. They served me well but there comes a moment in any evolving person's journey when the outer parents are left behind in the wake and inner parents are awoken. Instead of being parented, we learn to parent ourselves. This seemed an easy enough agreement and next phase in the journey. That was until I encountered the inner parents, who were a self stylized and magnified version of the ones I left behind. There were all the worst of my outer mother and father. I was going nowhere! They were outside and inside - I was surrounded. The condescending voice that I was not good enough blaring from within and the dominating attitudes, stopped the tides of my creativity and self esteem. Fair enough - I had to parent myself but I was not any better off. At least with the outer parents I was guaranteed a hug or two and a birthday present, from the inner parents came no comfort. Then, I learnt gently that I could not change the outer parents but I could change the inner parents. They were my creation, they spoke with the voices I allowed and followed and they were my hellish ideal! I had to begin my journey of self-parenting by sorting out what my inner mother and inner father would be like if I could choose from scratch. This was humbling! Did I want a robust, ample breasted warrior for a mother or a sensitive new age father. How much of the outer parents did I want to change? In the end - the inner parents became loftier versions of the parents I already had. They kept their shape and size and in fact most of their outer qualities - I did not need to overhaul that. What did morph was the supporting qualities, listening ears, understanding voices, kindness and down to earth well wishes for my future and whatever I embarked on without judgment and criticism. Once I began to grow these inner parents, inner voices to support me and have my back in each endeavor, a profound change began....

BE CENTRED

...13/6/13 'Every time I go into a seminar, I do this personal focusing ritual. It has always worked but in the sauna the other day, I had an epiphany regarding my connectedness to TWO streams of energy. I saw the earth (or mother) flowing up through the Kundalini up to my Heart and I saw spirit (or father) cascading from above down to my heart. My heart was and is the place where it all happens. My connectedness is held inside of me and if I allow it to flow freely, humbly asking for assistance from both - my body is supported by the earth and my mind is supported by spirit. My soul sits in my heart center, so body, mind and soul come together in this special place. How can anybody go wrong if they are guided in this way? JB...

YOU BELONG HERE

If indeed we are to assume that we are meant to be here on planet earth - and so many want to improve themselves to escape and go somewhere else - then to what purpose do we find ourselves being here in the first place? Was there a colossal cosmic mistake...'oops! Wrong planet! Sorry, but you will have to stay a while until you are re-zoned...?' Surely, there is something grander afoot? So, lets assume that you are here and there is no mistake and that you, in your infinite wisdom decided to make earth home, for at least the time being. What are YOU going to do about it? Are you going to whine and moan all the days of your life, filling friends and family' ears with buckets of fertilizer? Are you going to waste those precious days looking back over your shoulder at the past and blaming others for the way YOU responded to an incident? Are you going to keep giving that tyrant, abuser, accuser and destroyer ALL your precious days? Each moment you focus you them, is another moment lost. Give your precious time and energy to a bright future. Can you get over your past? YES! Some in the blink of an eye and others with hard focused work, but YES! It all comes down to CHOICE - * Choice is the active agent in generating your reality. * Choice can supersede all of the hormonal, genetic, social, ego and old templates of exploiting dominating power. It can over ride all of the programming that has been laid in the subconscious. * Choice is cornerstone to success. It is the essence of success. It is also at the root of happiness and joy itself. It is also the root of love, caring and intimacy. Likewise to the sense of self worth, self respect, self-confidence and self-esteem. * Choice is critical to changing your actions and image. Choice is also critical to learning. * Choice can surpass itself and supersede the subconscious and beliefs. So, if you haven't made a CHOICE - make it now. Choose to be happy on earth and have love and friendship follow you all the days of your life. J.B....